One of the various reasons why we have different meanings for a singular concept is because, over time, we tend to have adopted our meanings and impose them on these concepts. Porn consumption will never change, and its mechanism remains the same. However, the definition school A might give to porn consumption might be different from what school B will give. Nonetheless, it is important that in other for us to get things right, we must first get them right from the place of definition.Â
Porn will feature two or more consenting adults performing sexual acts, which goes for sex too. However, most people believe that porn isn’t romantic. So, since porn isn’t romantic, watching porn cannot be romantic. Most of these peeps, however, got it wrong first from the angle of definition. There’s no way you can separate romance from sex, and if romance cannot be separated from sex and there can be no porn without sex, it means that porn is entirely romantic. However, if you have seen porn videos that are not romantic, it might be because you have a pre-established opinion about what porn videos should be and not what they are.Â
Another wrong assumption most people have regarding the concept of porn being unromantic is that they believe porn always features rough sex. That’s untrue, as there are several genres of porn. If you’ve only seen BDSM porn, there’s a high probability that you see sex as rough and unromantic alone.Â
The main question now can watching porn be romantic? Yes, it can. As established earlier, sex could be romantic if the people involved are willing to make it so, take it slow and be rhythmic about it. The more you explore the concept of sex and porn with your partner, the more you understand one another better. Once understanding is established, romance in the relationship or lovemaking comes naturally.Â
If you need to make game nights with your partner, there are ways to adapt to make it romantic. The same goes for watching porn. You can watch porn with your partner and set the mood to what best suits the moment. Imagine watching porn on the bed with roses in a serene environment under the night stars. There’s nothing as captivating as moments like this, with just you and your partner stealing glances at one another.Â
You can be sure of multiple sexes before the end of the porn clip itself. So, yes, you and your partner may enjoy watching porn in a romantic atmosphere, but it takes two of you to come to that agreement. There are more than enough porn videos online that depict romance, be sure to lay your hands on as many as possible to learn a thing or two about romance in pornography.