When people think of anal sex, they imagine it’s always about a man’s penis entering the anus, but this isn’t complete. Anal sex involves any sexual activity around the anus, including orals (rim jobs), toys, or finger(s).
Anyone can enjoy anal sex, regardless of if they are a man, woman, bisexual, gay, or straight. It is also pleasurable when receiving or giving it. And while most gay men enjoy it, a few would rather not have penetrative anal sex.
If you’re reading this, you most likely want to try it out for the first time, or you want to learn so you can make anal sex more pleasurable. Either way, this article is designed to help you achieve orgasm from anal sex. Lateron would like to show you some special tips and moves. Click on this link to find out more.
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How Do You Have Anal Sex?
Anal sex can feel like a lot, especially the first time, so before you explore the area, make sure you and your partner are comfortable exploring. If at any point you feel you don’t like it, stop and explain how it makes you feel to your partner.
- If you decide to go ahead with it, start by stimulating the region. Make sure it gets comfortable with the idea of external stimulus. You can use your finger if you like. Doing this also relaxes the sphincter muscle in the anus to aid easy penetration.
- Using a lot of lube, start penetrating gradually and pulling out completely. Watch your partner’s response and when they give an affirmative sign, go deeper and pull out completely.
- Continue this process until you’re fully in, and make sure to communicate with your partner.
Anal sex can feel stimulating and pleasurable, but it does take some time to get used to, so don’t be in a hurry. If rushed, sex can become very painful.
Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t secrete fluid to lubricate surrounding tissue during sex. For that reason, it is important that you and your partner are relaxed, going in slowly and using a lot of lube.
Is It Possible To Orgasm through this sex?
Anatomically speaking, you can have just as intense an orgasm through anal sex as you can from vaginal sex. Anal penetration affects our bodies by stimulating the prostate (in the case of men) and the perineal and pudendal nerve in women (they connect with the clitoris).
This is why both men and women can find anal sex pleasurable, and it must always involve penetration. Touching, rubbing, and licking can be just as fun.
Should I Use a Condom During Anal Sex?
While it’s not possible to have a child through anal sex, you should still use condoms for protection. Having raw anal sex increases your risk of HIV and other sexually transmitted infections.
The lining of the anus is thin and tears easily, which makes it vulnerable to infection. So, you should be careful and avoid unprotected sex, especially with people other than your partner.
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